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We asked questions, which had gender specific relevance in two basic groups -
1) Feelings about gender.
2) Personal experiences common to one gender and not to the other.
Following
are a few examples of questions from each group and some representative
answers from the women and from the impersonating men:
1) Feelings about gender:
a. What expresses femininity?
Example answers –
Woman
– ‘An ability to understand and empathize with people and their
different feelings. Women’s intuition - A way of looking at the world,
often with a certain amount of over complication.’
Man – ‘Motherhood, giving her all for her child’
b. What is the essential difference in the way men and women think?
Example answers –
Woman – ‘ Women think’.
Man – ‘’ Less aware of the evil around them, and the wish to change it is, usually, not at the center of their life.’
2) Personal experiences common to one gender and not to the other:
a. What does it feel like to walk with heels?
Example answers –
Woman – ‘Not comfortable to begin with but its really neat when you get used to
it.’
Man – ‘Not comfortable to begin with (when you just start wearing heels) but a feeling of enlightenment afterwards.’
b. What is like to go to a gynecologist?
Example answers –
Woman – ‘It depends – If you are going to get the pill for the first time it can be quite exciting. If your going for a checkup it can be quite painful… and not just because of the physical stuff.’
Man
– ‘As you can imagine it is not a joyful experience to sit legs open on
the cold torture seat and answer embarrassing questions. With time it
becomes part of your daily routine.’
c. What are the things that you always carry in your handbag?
Example answers –
Woman – ‘A wallet’.
Man – ‘contact lenses, a wallet lipstick, makeup, mint mouth spray.’ |